[求助] 女友前男友又跟他聯絡消失
我跟女友交往大概四個月,認識約不到五個月,追她不到一個月在一起,他和前男友分開大概八個月,總共在一起六年之久,中間分開過很多次。
起初在一起一切都很好,直到前一週對我態度忽然反常,從膩在一起變成偶爾回一下,原本認為是其他原因,但直到昨天忽然傳了訊息說要分開,自己其實沒有那麼喜歡我,覺得還是想一個人自由自在。看到訊息我立即打過去,女友好幾通才接起來,口氣是我不曾聽過的差,他的意思已經是想分開。
事後朋友跟我說差不多是她態度轉變的時候,他前男友忽然賴她,儘管他沒有跟我說,但這應該就是原因了吧。
剛在一起時她又曾說過應該早點遇見我,就不用跟他前男友度過不好的時光,但分手時只說其實自己沒這麼喜歡我,一開始真的有投入很認真這段感情,但如今似乎一切都只是講講的而已。
據朋友說2-3年前他也有過類似情形,當時跟另外一位男生在一起,但也是不了了之最後又跟前男友復合。
我想知道的是,跟女友在一起一開始她把餅畫很大,甚至提到結婚、怎麼度過他爸那關(他爸異常保守)甚至早已訂了機票年底要出國,但現在看來一切都是浮雲了。怎麼樣也無法接受翻臉比翻書還快,從不時要我回訊息、po動
我跟女友在一起不曾吵過架、共同興趣也一樣,但他沒公開,多次自己主動跟我說因為當初跟前一個沒公開分手,不想讓人覺得他怎麼那麼快進入下一段感情,多次跟我解釋過,怕我想太多。
剛在一起時常常拿我跟前一個比較說我的好,但現在看來一切都只是屁話,我很認真投入這一段,不知道還有沒有機會挽回呢?現在非常苦惱,不知道該怎麼辦。
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※ 編輯: ginsachai (115.82.88.195), 04/16/2018 03:48:54
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