[討論] 要怎麼停止另一半不夠好的想法消失
其實也不知道自己為什麼總是不能滿足
前任家境好,爸媽資源挹注也多
但是是個媽寶
所以我常常嫌他被媽媽控制
也因此常吵架
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而現任
大我4歲,家境普通,我現在住他家
他爸媽人好
但覺得他爸媽偏心,男友家裡地位不高
不是很明顯的,從小地方察覺
另外男友很有責任感能力也很好
只是離開台gg後遇到的老闆都很爛
而在台gg時期,可能賺得多花的也多
五年下來只有一部二手車跟70萬投資在基金上
他比較務實,所以平常也不會太揮霍
但只要我想要的,他其實不太手軟
可是有時候就覺得
男友不夠好的點在於
1.經濟不上不下的
他從台gg離開後從事餐飲業
他覺得接近人群比較快樂
但餐飲就是工時長、薪水低
雖然他現在自己開店了
錢比較多了但還是工時長
他覺得這是常態
我覺得不是呀,是他自己要選cp值那麼低的行業
好吧,其實這也是跟他朋友比較而來的
2.個性
他個性其實是很正向的
但我覺得他就是人太好
所以家人呀、爛老闆啊才會這樣對他
雖然我覺得我這樣很詭異
不應該檢討被害人
但總覺得他要強悍一點才不會常常遇到這樣的事
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客觀來說
他算是很不錯的情人
很疼我很上進很正向
只是...我怎樣都不滿意
希望聽聽大家有什麼好方法或者說些什麼讓我心態可以正確一點
不然我遇到怎樣的人都會嫌吧........
先謝謝大家了
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