[求助] 女友很喜歡跑一些大學活動消失
男女板首po,請鞭小力點
如題,
小弟我女友很喜歡參加大學的娛樂性活動,
例如:宿營、大學營、友會之夜等
但是她的科系是需要不斷唸書準備國考的
結果在平日開籌備會從9點開到半夜1,2點
(我個人覺得開會是在玩樂啦)
把自己搞的很累沒時間
更不用說見面之類的
雖然說我和她也是因為活動認識的,
在一起之後我就不參加活動了
而小弟我認為說學生的本份應該是課業為重,
為未來的職涯做準備,多充實自我能力之類的
其次才是參與社團娛樂。
我個人是覺得這些活動都有個基本定律和淺規則啦
一開始學長姐好聲好氣的拉你進去,一開始瘋狂玩樂讓你覺得很爽,接下來逼近營期時
就像資方慣老闆逼迫你加班趕工,
讓你覺得很想退出,等到你真的想退時
再來個感性時間弄的痛哭流淚
給你一種跑活動很感動的錯覺
之後又再舉辦下個活動,一直惡性循環下去
更不用說籌備期間叫你貼錢
前陣子有跟她深度談過,我是蠻反對她跑這些的
不過我不想綁住她,所以我也都用暗示來表達我的想法。
她爸媽想法也跟我差不多,也勸過了
不過她好像沒怎麼聽進去,
想請教男女板的各位大大,小弟我該怎麼做呀?
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真的很邪惡
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小弟我蠻好奇是怎樣的成就感,之前參加時只覺得認識很多朋友這樣而已
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我蠻怕她心收不回來
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她還是有稍微唸書所以應該不太會知道吧
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之前參加時是莫名奇妙被拉進去的,在一開始參加時就決定以後絕不跑活動了
啊我又沒限制她去,我只有跟她說過我的感受然後叫她自己決定
※ 編輯: F22pilot (180.217.74.215), 03/29/2018 14:10:47
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目的達成?是指交女友嗎?會交完全是意外欸
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我整天讀書不打game算不算耍廢呀
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所以我給她自己選擇呀
我應該有權利跟她說我的想法
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是呀,也只能尊重她的選擇了
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