想請問大家,
我的學弟小我一屆年28,
他很煩惱他的女朋友離過婚有一個小孩,
小孩明年要考高中了,
女友快40歲,
學弟家是家教嚴而且虔誠的天主教,
他說雖然他跟女友現在很穩定也很甜蜜,
交往3年並持續中,
但覺得跟家人提都不用提就知道反對,
而且雖然他和女友的小孩常常一起出遊,
但還是想要自己的小孩,
想問大家,
如果自己遇到這件事,
理性與感性的層面分別會怎麼看這段戀愛呢?
若有冒犯的地方抱歉了,想聽聽大家的意見,謝謝!
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本來覺得他們很難有結果看完大家回應覺得蠻樂觀的耶!
但是可能男方父母很難接受,所以他連提都不敢提。
經濟狀況:男方工程師,新北有兩間房子,但不是學弟自己賺的
女方:診所護士,
多的我就不清楚了
※ 編輯: duduhao (223.141.56.197), 10/13/2017 19:56:31
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謝謝大家的回覆
※ 編輯: duduhao (223.141.56.197), 10/13/2017 20:00:22
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我也是這樣覺得,光卡到父母就覺得麻煩
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有研究所倆年
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或許是叫叔叔?或哥哥? 忘了說是女兒喔!
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回兩位大大,我也是這樣認為的,但可能愛的時候很難抵擋?
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現在怎麼樣呢?
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我是不會
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是女兒喔
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