[討論] 要怎麼開解我朋友?
想請問板上各位
在情侶決定結婚前碰到這情況該怎麼處理?
朋友A和男友B目前交往了近三年
雙方"之前"都有共識要結婚,雙方家長也是如此認為
只是在雙方都準備得差不多
B想向A口頭象徵性確認的時候,朋友A突然猶豫了
告訴B希望可以"暫緩"一下,然後就炸了
A不是不想結,
但不知道怎麼表達她的想法(她自己也搞不清楚),
B則是滿腦子的WHY?
然後拖到現在大概一個月,B也開始有點不滿
A覺得過程太強勢、太快速,沒有參與感
雙方聘金、結婚旅行、結婚地點、結婚方式、婚前協議,
沒有任何爭議
或者說B每個問題都供了不少選擇,A只要選擇認為最好的就可以
因此拍板定案的過程非常快
但問A是不是哪個部分的內容覺得不好,她又覺得沒有、都很好
不知道板上有什麼意見可供參考@@
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