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朋友2個月前認識了一些鄉民,有加賴在聊天(朋友為女,鄉民皆為男)
也有陸續跟幾位鄉民聊天吃飯看電影,其中有一位鄉民,這裡簡稱A,朋友跟A吃了兩次飯
看了一次電影
第一次跟第二次吃飯看電影都很正常,聊天也都有一搭沒一搭的聊天,之後A逐漸在聊天
時會「刻意」傳一些較為奇怪的言詞,他總會跟我朋友說:「要不要跟我睡」、「什麼時
候要跟我睡」之類的
朋友覺得很納悶,為什麼要傳這種訊息給她,而朋友回訊息詢問,A只是說吃飯看電影這
類的不討厭就行,睡覺是要看感覺的
聽到這裡我腦袋只想到「所以意思是他要跟妳約炮把妳當炮友的意思?」,朋友已經盡量
冷處理,也很少回訊息,因為A傳10句有11句都問我朋友要不要一起睡、要不要陪我睡之
類的,朋友也只是覺得A很「奇怪」而已,覺得A只是嘴砲,因為跟A吃飯並不覺得有異
今天朋友告訴我明天要跟A出去吃飯看電影,我就詢問朋友說,A整天叫妳跟他睡妳不覺得
這樣子赴約不好嗎?朋友只是回答她不覺得會怎樣,因為之前約會也沒有異常,我是基於
雞婆跟朋友說很多時候妳看不出來,雖然看起來沒怎樣,但他一直在要妳跟他睡就不正常
了,理論上應該別去,排除可能會發生的風險,也舉例一些社會新聞案例給她聽,但她一
直覺得是我想太多,為什麼要往壞處想
為了這件事我們爭論很久,我不知道我是不是錯誤的,因為我的認知,遇到這種一直要人
跟他睡覺的人,我連赴約都不可能,因為要排除風險,但朋友覺得只是吃飯看電影而已,
她又沒有要怎樣,請問各位,這樣是我多慮了還是我朋友太沒警戒心了?
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別這樣說啦,她是我很好的朋友,很想勸醒她啊QQ
我只是想要排除風險而已,她說那按照我邏輯是不是他都別出門了...
可是明明也有正常不會這樣說的男生,她也說那你能保證他們安全嗎囧
※ 編輯: eric5876 (114.136.18.13), 06/16/2017 01:30:40
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倒是不大可能為了錢,只是一直強調「我只是吃飯看電影而已,又沒有要怎樣」
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