[求助] 能接受交往對象與異性朋友單獨見面嗎?
希望大家要鞭的話請鞭小力一些
但這幾天與男友因為這事鬧得有點不愉快
我在想 這是否就是價值觀不同?
首先是前任
我男朋友與幾乎所有的前女友都有聯絡
但是我不了解這種心態
有一個是K
曾經跟他交往四年多 他們已分手十多年(我男友是大叔級)
K每兩三年會來他的城市出差 就會順道找他見面喝咖啡聊天
另一個是M
他四年多前交往的對象 只在一起半年
是個很年輕漂亮的妹子
在與我交往前他們還是每兩三個月會見面
例如看電影喝咖啡
(他說他們絕對不是炮友 因為分手原因之一就是床事不合)
跟我交往後 因為我不開心
他們已半年沒見面
但是他覺得他這樣因為女友就不理朋友 是很沒人性
所以他最近又提到想聯絡她
還有一個是T
他曾經同居過七年的女朋友
我男朋友覺得個性不合 所以提分手
但之後持續四年都還摳摳纏
直到女方去年交了一個穩定的對象 才真的斷了我男朋友
可是也因為是同居這麼久的女友
他覺得對方對他來說像家人(像他的前妻)
他昨天突然跟我說
他之後會想找機會與T見面
雖然我也有前男友
可是我跟我前男友每任都沒連絡
覺得完全沒有聯絡的必要
就像網路上流傳的
世界上可以交的朋友這麼多
為啥要跟上過床的繼續當朋友?
說完若若長的前女友篇接下來說他的女性朋友
他有一個朋友Y
是在跟我交往前他上瑜珈課認識的
跟我在一起後 因為我會吃醋
所以他這半年都沒跟Y見面 也都沒去上瑜珈課
但他這幾天開始想運動 又開始去上瑜珈課
於是他說 他想念這個朋友Y
想約她一起上課
其實我真的不太能接受
有交往對象後還與其他異性單獨見面這回事(如果對方又是單身)
但是我一直在想
一般來說
到底是我太小心眼 控制欲太大嗎?
還是我們就是觀念不同
沒有誰對誰錯的問題?
我是否該提早認賠殺出算了
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