[討論] 30歲,擴展交友圈?消失
最近與幾位30左右的女性聊天
不論是單身許久或者處在不好的關係中的 都有一個一樣的問題在糾結
單身者:不知道如何擴展交友圈 覺得好的都被撿走了
(補充: 這類論述者年輕時或許因為情傷或者自卑等等其他因素停滯很久
碰到追求者往往不敢嘗試怕受傷 也不完全是挑三揀四類型? 還是這也算?
等到雷達開啟時往往會有好的被撿走狀況
處在不好關係不願離開者:一樣怕離開原本的人之後難有機會認識其他人
畢竟職場戀情能避則避,為了談戀愛丟掉飯碗不值得
上班時間長哪來閒暇時間認識那麼多人
這些人大多不走交友網站、婚友社這條路 似乎選擇越來越窄了
這些人還有個雷同之處
說起目前男友/喜歡類型的特質就是 有抱負有理想 OR 自己能崇拜
還是問題其實是出現在這個選擇的條件上?
覺得每次聽到這類言論似乎都是在原地踏步,
不曉得版友有沒有相關經驗、建議能分享,
除了選擇條件之外,何謂擴大交友圈方法? (非網站婚友社!?)
謝謝!!!
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