Re: [心情] 無法溝通的爸爸消失
版友好,我是原po。
非常謝謝版友們的指教,有些地方我想說明一下:
1 很抱歉不知道有FamilyCircle版,想說有關情侶的事便po上來了。
2 微婉勸說或是直接對槓,我們都試過,但他總認為我們沒有了解他為什麼這麼做、一味
指責他( 所以才說無法溝通),他不會檢討自己哪裡需要修正,只會堅持因為他的目是
對的。而且他有高血壓,一氣起來就會飆高,怕出事只能暫時休兵。
3 老實說我們也很想一走了之,但想到媽媽看到我們切割關係一定很為難...她時常流淚
自責她的勸阻無效、很無能,讓我們那麼痛苦。(家裡經濟主力是媽媽,她辛苦那麼多年
,不想傷害她)只能等畢業再放生。
4 這次的事始料未及,沒想到他會默默觀察他的臉書,也以為他罵完就夠了。目前我們決
定對大妹跟對方父母道歉,一致口徑向雙方父母表示已分手、戀情地下化,直到他們有穩
定工作後再說,而小妹以後交男友不會讓爸爸知情。目前礙於還是學生只能暫時退讓,未
來結婚絕對不住一起,若他反對對象不予理會。
5 沒勸住爸爸的確是我們的不對,從來不覺得爸爸這樣是對的行為,也有跟男友賠不是,
能做的都做了,真的很謝謝版友的指教和建議!這次的事也讓我們反省以後自己的事少跟
家裡說,被他們的情緒勒索太久了,好累。(一個鬼打牆+暴走,一個玻璃心+不停自責,
兩個都應該給醫生諮商,但他們一定不覺得自己需要,唉)
※ 編輯: derive917 (114.137.180.60), 05/17/2017 11:13:51
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