[心情] 明明在一起卻像是單身
交往五年經歷過學生時代到出社會工作
女方戀情家人不知(家人難搞),無綠的可能。
同縣市工作,但見面機會非常少。因為女方地下戀,假日沒正當理由無法隨意出門,不能
講視訊、講電話。大概一周約一次午餐或晚餐(約1小時)
每天LINE文字約20分鐘,工作忙的話10分鐘。
絕對沒有綠的情況,應該也沒有平淡或不愛了什麼的,
純粹是因為女方住家裡又地下戀,再加上事業心重。
每次談到相處時間的問題:
地下戀->女方表示:我也沒辦法,你確定想跟我家公開!?到時候只會更麻煩哦
工作忙->女方表示:專心做一件事情不好嗎? 做事本來就要認真做啊
不聯絡!?->女方表示:每天都有LINE阿…
最後溝通完都是我先敗陣下來。家裡無解,只能等我事業成功才能出現!?,然後她拚事業
又不能說什麼,LINE的聊天品質也不佳(回復間格長,扣掉貼圖的話,內容也不算多)。
現在就過著像單身的生活,有時候都會再想要不要分手,
但後來又想想,分手的意義是什麼?
也沒有要找新女友的打算,那其實現在的生活跟單身沒啥差別,有分跟沒分有差嗎?
以前還會生氣,現在只是對這段關係感到疑惑與茫然。
勿轉,謝謝
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會被各種嫌棄甚至拆散,但我職業個性什麼的都很正常= = 。她不想說謊
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見面都很正常的互動
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沒個人房間,已婚不太可能啦,畢竟大學就在一起了
※ 編輯: pyridine (125.230.41.177), 05/13/2017 22:16:52
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