[心情] 應該跟同事女友道歉嗎?
我在科技業上班,可想而知辦公室男女比懸殊,大部分的人都比我大個七八歲,
比較常聊天的同事就只有年紀相仿的一男一女,絕大部分時間我是跟女同事互動的。
但女同事請假或出差時,男同事便會找我吃午餐,或是去便利商店,而我認為那是因為他
看我一個人才找我去的,我們會一起結帳。
有時,我可能還在忙,他問要不要帶午餐給我,我就會說好啊!他介紹過我他家附近好吃
的早餐店,偶爾也會問我要不要+1,他也會幫其他人帶,但只有我是女生。
今天他跟我說女友因為發現有幾張發票的餐點是兩人份,發現訊息中我會跟他說早餐要點
什麼,午餐要幫我帶什麼,認為我們沒有避嫌而大吵了一架。
還有一次是我發訊息說:跪求哥來幫小女子搬雞排
這句話讓同事女友覺得我在對同事撒嬌。
他說女友記了我的電話號碼,不知道會不會打給我。但是我不知道他女友若是打給我,我
除了解釋外,該不該道歉...
覺得需要道歉的原因是因為我讓她誤會了,讓她心裡不舒服,希望她別誤會生氣。
不該道歉的原因,是因為我們僅僅是同事間關係,若道歉的話是否會越描越黑....
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我純粹不知道是不是應該道歉,沒有說別人有問題,也沒說自己很單純。
※ 編輯: cara4966 (114.137.249.61), 05/13/2017 22:45:48
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好的 謝謝大家建議。
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