[求助] 婚前恐懼該怎解?
我跟女友年滿28歲,已經預計明天初結婚(卡在虛歲29,真的超討厭的),
雙方父母也都談好了,目前沒有同居...
我們兩個算是很相愛的(我的感覺啦),但最近我們好像都有點婚前恐懼症...
先說我好了,人蠻邊緣的,朋友不太多,
自從婚期訂了之後,我的安全感越來越不足
但近期更為嚴重...
導致很黏著她、想知道他現在在幹嘛、想知道他在跟誰聊天
(其實之前聊line有一部分不開心是我坐在她面前,但有時候會忽略我講話的內容,但我們有明白地講出來,她也有聽進去)
不知不覺的也給了她壓力...真的很想改掉這壞習慣啊...)
女朋友則是怕結婚後會沒有自己的時間,
想要有一些自己的私人時間做自己的事情
她想多交些新朋友,
最近也開始跟一些以前的朋友聯絡聊天,
我們兩個人也有好好的談過,想有什麼辦法解決,
今天討論的方法是
1.先減少約會的次數:我們在同園區不同公司上班,基本上很常碰面
2.不能干涉女朋友太多事情,要給她私人的時間
3.如果是跟我出去約會的話,要專心在我身上
想說試試看能不能解決
最後想請教各位,這就是所謂的婚前恐懼症嗎?
各位有經驗嗎?又是如何解決的呢?
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