男友要去澳洲消失
思緒很亂中,請見諒。
我和男友是台南和台中的遠距離戀愛三年。
他說他的個性是不喜歡講電話,平常我心情不好抱怨的時候,他也常常沒幾句的代過。
可是我在遠距離戀愛會很需要對方的主動關心,不過他個性使然,常常沒說幾句就帶過,
我只好接受。
只有我們見面,一個月2-3次,輪流過去彼此的城市。因為面對面,所以不用他太多主動
回應什麼,也能一起開開心心吃飯出遊。
吵架時他不常處理,通常是我想辦法,我累了就都放著不管。
這幾個月是我趕畢業論文常常壓力大,見面時間比較少。打電話給他也常是嗯嗯比較簡單
的回應,有時候覺得他還是很不體貼。
三月初,因為他工作出問題辭職,我不知道他辭職,只覺得他那陣子他常不接電話,我後
來就生氣冷戰他好幾天。
合好之後,是我自己發現他辭職了,我一直問他他才承認,他辭職的事我是很後面才知道
,他家人朋友都先知道了。
我問他為何不跟我說,他說他對我一時很難開口,我就沒再追究下去。
但是,他承認他辭職之後,接著說要去澳洲打工,他說這是他的夢想。他在大學就有提過
,只是當時都是說說而已。
我也以為他只是說說而已,沒想到現在情況是他自己約好三個朋友一起去,簽證也辦好了
,我不時問他真要去?他說對。
喜歡他的原因是因為他個性幽默,善良,雖然發生很多事,但是因為在一起滿久了,也喜
歡、習慣有他,沒真的想分手過。
不過他經歷職場事情,帶來一些變化,是我很困惑要如何跟他相處。
1.他目前六月去澳洲之前都在家休息,但也沒因爲時間比較多、以後更少見面就多關心我
。我問他為什麼不愛跟我聊天,他說跟我講話很無聊,沒共同興趣。(我是文學院,他愛
打lol,共同興趣就是喜歡吃喝玩樂)
2.他常常跟朋友出門聊心事或玩,電話常不接,半夜回家之後才回我,當時我已睡了。
3.他會要求我要怎樣的髮型,怎樣的穿著。
4.偷看他聊天訊息發現他朋友都在跟他聊妹。
5.他開始又愛打扮,好奇怪。
他現在的情況,讓我好煩,是我不夠體貼他、獨立?各位能否建議我該如何有什麼心態去
面對嗎?
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