[討論] 我正在耽誤她的人生青春嗎消失
是這樣
這一年半來與一位年齡大我6歲的女子相處融洽, 但現在在想這樣的相處還能多久
互動的方式走姐弟閨蜜方式
我們是職場上相識
她是個精明責任感很強的前輩
身為後輩我有疑問或在執行不放心的業務行動時她常常主動與我一塊出謀劃策
常常而且有功不會搶 有鍋則會以是她前輩下指導棋的理由站出來一起扛
我也很慶幸能遇到一個我找不到缺點的前輩跟隨,她在工作上展現的所有正向特質, 也深深影響我在工作的積極度
而我這個人有個壞習慣
每每都會對週遭對我好為我付出的異性產生愛慕
只要在一段長相處的時間裡,我越瞭解她的好,就會越著迷於這個人,我現在很肯定我是在單戀迷戀她,只是我不敢表態打破現在的情況
也因為自己hold住感情的表態,我現在能較為自然的成為她訴說心事訴說工作上的壓力委屈聽她放聲哭的人
職場上並肩行動
職場下幾乎每晚Link line聊到休息
這一年半我想我是跟他走的最親近的異性了
但是在剛結束的連假,與朋友聊到成家的議題時,我發現對這兩個字完全想法空白
這次同時也是婚慶大日的連假中,在出席大學同學婚禮時,過去的死黨(男)探知我個人感情現況後,直接噴我
渣男耶 你黏著她 雖然她沒拒絕你的親近 但她的青春有限 你要是不敢勇敢告白來個一翻兩瞪眼面對成敗覺悟 就不要浪費她的時間
她大你六歲 已經三開頭了耶
我現在也真的思考著 我這是耽誤她嗎
跟她這樣親近相處我真的過的很開心 但是對她來說呢?
講社會歷練 職位 薪資 我都是她的後輩
是不是該為她想讓她把時間花在認識更好的人而不是花在我身上
是不是她該被體貼照顧 而不是現在這樣反過來大部分時間照顧關心我
雖然根本沒正式交往
但連跨第一步告白面對成敗都覺得多餘了
開始覺得我黏著她就是個很不體貼沒想過她現況耽誤著她的自私行為
版上小戀大的經驗多嗎 能否分享一下你們的事?
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