[求助] 交往不久,要帶男友到家裡見父母...
各位大大,如題
我們交往3個多月了,大概去年12月中在一起
這幾個月來已經去男友家裡見過他的家人,只要男友從外島放假回來就會跟他回家住
因為本身不在自己居住的城市,在外地工作
而且男友是軍人,一直都沒有機會帶回家給父母看
想說也三個月了,我本身其實有跟男友坦承會想已結婚為前提交往
因為談戀愛對我自己來說真的蠻浪費時間的
傷神傷心又傷青春XDDDD
男友有次還跟我提說他媽在問我們要不要結婚?
媽咪(男友媽): 阿你們有沒有要結婚啊?
男友: 有吧
媽咪: 什麼時候?
男友: 我們會再討論看看
媽咪: 不然先懷孕好了!
男友: .............
我聽完也是很shock XDDD
想說媽咪也想太遠,雖然我們是有婚前性行為啦
但都有防護措施,因為不想那麼快要有小孩
沒有一定的經濟能力是不可能的,連自己都養不活了...
其實我們有打算先去戶政事務所公證就好
還不考慮讓我爸媽知道,但媽咪告訴我這樣長輩會很不爽
可是我真的還沒準備好...
我的個性真的比較偏向先斬後奏
不過媽咪以她的角度告訴我,這麼大的事情如果先瞞著不講
以後解釋會很難,這樣我父母會怎麼想我男友這個人?
可是又覺得才在一起3個月欸...
5/20就要公證,我爸媽不知道會不會覺得太快...
估計月底要帶他去見我爸媽,我真的很緊張,因為我是第一次帶男友回家...
這禮拜天會回家知會爸媽一聲
但各位大大,你們覺得我是不是也要坦承我們想結婚這件事?
不然這種事也不可能瞞一輩子....
徵求一針見血的建議,但請打小力一點...
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