[求助] 要怎麼把戀愛與婚姻當成一件重要的事情?消失
最近越來越多表哥表姊結婚,
而我是沒有生活圈的人,就只是上班下班看書閱讀旅行購物,
目前也沒有所謂朋友的關係,沒有定期見面的人。
就被念說人家怎麼會想,結婚啦買房子什麼的,我就莫名的心情不好,
本人也只有短期與女性關係不錯的經驗,但那還稱不上戀愛,
就算說沒真的戀愛過也不會與事實差異太遠。
不只是沒戀愛過,我從來都沒有什麼可以稱為社交圈的關係存在,
周圍沒有可信之人,沒有我真的能夠託付出去什麼事情的對象,
父母跟自己的價值觀不同,我比較吹毛求疵要求完美,要求細節,
所以我也只能自己來,我從高中就是在自己的20坪空間活動,
沒事也不會跟父母接觸。
而朋友,其實也沒有稱得上這類關係的人,我不知道怎麼去"維持友誼",
所以每個階段就會更新聯絡人清單,而現在的工作也只要保持最低限度的互動。
不過以一個人生活而言我還不怎麼會煮菜就是了,所以大概也沒這個能力吧
在這種情況下要怎麼把戀愛與婚姻當成一件重要的事情??
我覺得以字面上這的確很重要,但就好像耳邊風一樣,煩惱過就算了,
依然不會管它。
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我既然這樣問了,我要的就是絕對的正確性的回答
你開心就好這種回答在這種情況不太適用
※ 編輯: allengx9900 (122.117.76.56), 12/15/2016 04:20:52
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我對於跟他人互動實在不擅長,事務性的關係簡單多了XD
※ 編輯: allengx9900 (122.117.76.56), 12/15/2016 04:38:34
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