[求助] 覺得以後可能不會在一起
那天跟男友聊到 他說他現在很愛我 但是以後他不知道
他覺得未來會發生什麼事 他的想法會有什麼改變 都有可能
我們有一天分手也是有可能的
心裡很難受
我沒有過那種想法 我一直都對我們的感情很有信心
認為以後我還是會很愛他
有什麼困難都可以一起走過
在一起六年了 也有討論過未來結婚
沒有辦法想像沒有他的生活
才知道原來他一直都有分手的心理準備
知道他說的是事實
但是在我心裡種下了一個種子
開始想像分開的可能性
以前有過對方覺得彼此都還年輕 以後應該會分手
之後遇到問題時
我想遲早會分手 不如現在吧
就不去多做努力了
我不想變成這麼消極 這麼沒安全感
跟男友說聽他這樣講很難過
他說可能是他沒有我愛他那麼愛我吧
但是他會努力看看
該如何調適自己不要想太多呢
忍不住的往壞處想
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謝謝大家 其實交過不少年紀也不小了
因為在一起久了開始考慮未來 覺得他對彼此感情沒信心 已經在考慮未來分手的可能 才
感覺不安 並不是要他給什麼承諾
或許是穩定久了我真的太天真了
我會居安思危一點
※ 編輯: pucca (223.140.21.93), 09/22/2016 10:59:31
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