[求助] 恨前任算正常嗎?
如題。
分手到現在半年多,這中間除了看一些書籍外,也有去心理輔導(感謝學校都有提供心理
輔導的管道)
雖然經過輔導有好一點,但是心裡還是覺得很恨她,恨她原因包括她根本不會避嫌、屢次
騙我、第三者介入等,重點是她永遠覺得她是對的,好像錯都是在我,而騙我也說是怕我
不能接受,交往後照樣單獨去男生租屋處。因為溝通無效(還說她柏拉圖式愛情..連溝通
都超不屑)加上她死性不改,後來分手收場。
只是那幾次事件傷害我太深,我不知道自己是怎麼撐過來的,從100%相信到滿腹的懷疑和
猜忌,現在看我之前的樣子都覺得很不像自己..
雖然開心的事還是有,但佔據成份遠遠比不過那些厭惡,所以想問版上的朋友,恨前任是
正常的嗎?還是我只是還沒放下?
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題外話:
前幾天,她出國回來說買了手鍊要給我,並透過我弟問我近況和收不收(他們學校同一個
處室工讀生),下面是我弟跟我對話:
http://i.imgur.com/evHWrI0.jpg
![](https://i.imgur.com/evHWrI0.jpg)
當下第一反應: 幹!
後來回完那段話,我就請我弟回說"我不接受陌生人的禮物。"
並叫我弟不要再告訴我有關她的事
每次看到她或是聽到有關她的事都讓我好反胃==
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但願我有那個智慧分辨誰是好人爛人,而不是等到遍體鱗傷才知道。
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