[求助] 與護理師交往的緣分與建議
標題下的怪怪的請見諒
家母三個月前因為小症狀需住院觀察
期間認識一個護理師
閒聊得知他是個純樸簡單的鄉下女孩
個性傻呼呼的,很可愛
醫院的工作真的很血汗,不停的輪班
大夜一次就要一周,做到腦袋都空白
形同殭屍(回想自己當兵也不會連續幾天都夜哨)
他苦笑說自己只是外表很能幹,其實當下累的跟狗一樣,台北也沒什麼機會玩
畢竟都在醫院,整天就是工作工作,生活其實蠻封閉的,假日不是補眠就是進修
(他們有些研討報告跟書要讀)
幾次對談後,就鼓起勇氣約他
(先前有過的經驗就是聊太久,沒話題就沒了,所以要把握時間)
"嘿,晚上天氣涼一點,出來走走吧"
這是見面時對他說的,事前演練很久
他當下掙大眼睛,隨即害羞的摀住臉
但還是靦腆的說
"我今天好像跟朋友有約.....我不確定......痾......這個......讓我確定再給你答案好
嗎!......"
我離開前,他抿嘴對我說"謝謝......"
白班結束通常都是直接躺回去補眠,再起來覓食
我預測是晚上8點半,果真那時間左右,他回我了
"今天跟朋友真的有約><~~~不好意思
月底醫院有個評鑑,離不開身,大家都要加班努力,下次吧~~~謝謝"
(月底真的有個醫院評鑑)
那時離月底大約十來天,坦白說有點難忍,但既然他都這樣說了,就等他吧
隔月月初,敲敲他想問近況
已讀
當下有些難過,心想該不會跟先前經驗一樣吧,但想太多總是不好
所以找了個機會再去見他
"喔~~嗨"
他回我的時候冷冰冰的
"你來幹嘛"
我當下有些不知所措
"嗯......我......先走了"
"慢走"
不知道自己說錯什麼,做錯什麼
好像太有禮貌太遵守規定不好
是不是當初聊天結尾就要想理由約他
是不是不管醫院評鑑也要約出來
如果當下見面邀約時
不要臉,不要那麼乖,霸道一點
"五點門口喔~~~~掰掰掰掰掰"
直接這樣講是不是比較好
現在是全職考生,年底考完試,想再去看看他
希望能跟他有些良緣,我只是喜歡他,
就這個意思而已
請大家給點建議
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天啊,這篇怎麼爆了= =
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嗯嗯,謝謝建議
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我知道你不是算命師
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感謝各位建議
※ 編輯: GonVolcano (180.217.13.148), 09/19/2016 00:01:52
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