[心情] 一個沒有時間觀念的閃光
各位先進、前輩大家好 ,小弟目前這一位女友是小弟的初戀,與她走了六年了,對於彼此的生活習慣家庭文化都有一定的認知了,但對於時間觀念這一項我的她總是有問題,
舉例來說:過往我跟朋友要去看電影都可以約定時間預定票位並準時抵達觀影,但與她去觀影一定是要等到她準備好才能決定票位無法預定票位,因為她總是有一些瑣碎的事要處理,如我催促她時間快到了而鬧鬧小脾氣導致遲到;
不吹促而是她自己東摸西摸到遲到;她不愛我提醒催促時間但自己又無法準時準備好,舉今天的例子,她事前告知我跟朋友約好下午一點吃飯要跟我借機車但因為她早上體檢耽誤了時間導致十二點半才到火車站,而我在她到站前就在車站等她想說可以先騎車回我家再讓他騎機車出門赴飯局,誰知她說她還要載同性友人一起過去飯局,導致我在路中直接停車 改搭公車自己回家讓她可以準時騎車赴約。請問各位前輩 我該怎麼跟他溝通問題?
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→ ann7773631: 你這種溝通方式 鬼才理你
並不是,我六年來遇到問題都會跟他反應,各位前輩給的建議我也都有爬過文看過,發火有過、溝通有過,下場就是又要一個禮拜都在吵架不爽消磨感情。
到現在我怕跟她吵,如看電影都會等到她人確定在外面沒有其他事情可以給她摸的時候,我才會去訂票。
我同意這六年是我白目一昧包容,我真的不愛跟她吵架,那種一吵架就不理人不講話的態度我很難接受。
所以現在才會浮出水面跟各位前輩討教。(目前還有女友與老媽相處問題) 04/16 13:19
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