跟男友交往多年了 最近他才提出要結婚這個計劃
因為家裡長輩在催 他自己也覺得不要再拖了 但是突如其來的實在讓我很害怕,
平時相處時常有小爭吵 都是因為他一些不中聽的口頭禪 ex:"白痴哦","智障哦","聾子哦,
"瞎子哦" 而有問題問他該怎麼辦? 他也只會回"不知道" "涼拌炒雞蛋"
諸如此類幼稚的話 等我氣一氣他改口後我們又和好.
可是一想到如果結婚要相處幾十年, 這樣的態度讓我想到就快窒息
除此之外興趣喜好都還算合得來 人也算誠實善良
當他提出我們該結婚了卻又不積極討論婚後的規劃 都是我在問後續
經濟方面他賺得不多但是他認為家裡有在收房租不會有問題 加上我收入是比他高的
而且家裡有車有房了他認為沒什麼好擔心的
他就直接說婚後住他家樓上 且要宴客 但這些都不是我要的讓我覺得有點不受尊重
怎麼都不先問我意見或再溝通 什麼都要按照他家安排好的走
很想再跟他多溝通 可是他的個性會覺得 "妳毛怎麼這麼多不想要結婚要早點說"
我已經30初了也是會擔心好不容易習慣了的這個人 下一個不一定會更好
真的不知道該怎麼辦...
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