[心情] 同居前的徬徨?
跟男友交往三個月左右,
因為是遠距離,考慮到之後要結婚,
所以月底就要離職搬家跟男友同居,
一開始會住在男友家,
在跟朋友以及上司談論到要離職北上的時候,
大家都要我考慮清楚,
當然我的父母也是勸我要想好再做決定,
每次只有有人這樣說,我就會跟男友說,
我好猶豫,但每次只要這樣說,
男友就會生氣的說,我就是不信任他!
一來一往也就過了兩個月,
這期間其實有慢慢的把自己的物品搬到男友家,
男友也很體貼,會安慰我說,
如果暫時找不到工作沒關係,
可以在他們家幫忙是有支薪的!
所以生活開銷上不用太過擔心,
但老實說…我們也就認識五個多月,
比起我的同事以及朋友都短,
一下子要好不猶豫的相信他,並且搬家,真的很難吧…
剛剛又跟他提到我還是有點猶豫,
他突然火大了,一直說我不信任他,
每次都要被朋友的言論動搖,難道就不能相信他嗎?
我的猶豫彷徨,難道對他來說真的都是不應該得嗎?
謝謝大家!
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※ 編輯: kuromipink (39.9.196.180), 10/04/2015 17:06:08
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謝謝各位版友的回文,
有考慮到結婚是雙方都有了共識,
雙方家人也是有共識就只差談親事了,
還沒談的原因是,我覺得我需要適應,
而且太快了,我會擔心也還沒心理準備!
至於到男友家工作的薪水部分也都談好了,
雖然是暫時的,只是一邊幫忙一邊準備新工作面試!
為什麼沒有搬出去,是我沒提出說要搬出去,男友也說結婚後就要搬出去,只是時間的問
題,
關於同居這件事很多次都是下定決心了,
但又猶豫了,男友才會覺得這種循環很困擾吧…
男友覺得我是庸人自擾,
不應該把他沒做的事情加諸在他的身上,
(我就會跟他說我有種寄人籬下的感覺,或是改天他要提分手…之類的)
※ 編輯: kuromipink (39.9.196.180), 10/04/2015 17:40:19
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