[求助] 到底要怎麼樣才能求婚成功?(代po)
全文代po 如不合本版規定將自刪
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我是分隔線 我是分隔線
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我是今年36歲的男生 跟30歲的女友已經交往六年了
雙方工作穩定 收入正常 感情良好
目前兩人已經進入同居第三年
每天兩個人相處的時間都很長也很有品質(她姐夫還比較常出差呢)
我因為獨自在台北工作 所以受準岳父岳母照顧良多(連房子都是跟他們租的)
跟她家人(兩個姊妹)感情也很好
幾乎每天都回她家跟他家人一起吃飯 逢年過節也都會一起度過(當然還是有回家)
女友對我的事業很支持(我是自由工作者)
也常常說她想要小孩(她姊姊已經有小孩了,很可愛,女友也很疼她)
雙方父母都很希望可以快點成婚
結婚後我們會續留台北住在目前的房子中
就算之後(很久以後)要回南部老家 也不需要跟公婆同住
我不是獨子 哥哥已經有小孩了 所以不需要擔心傳宗接代的壓力.....
我是真心地覺得我應該算是成功機率很大了
但是!我的求婚總是被打槍!!!!!
從去年開始我求婚已經超過N次
一開始我女友說沒有百萬鑽戒不嫁 我馬上就去準備一只名牌鑽戒
(雖然沒有百萬,但三個月薪水也值了)
她說她想在文華東方請客 我爸媽也同意 我當然沒意見
結果她又說她只是開玩笑 誰要在那麼貴的地方請客?鐵定賠錢~
我試過找來朋友熱鬧公開求婚 她當下說好但事後我說要開始籌備時又說再看看
也試過出國玩只有兩個人花前月下浪漫求婚 她說不用麻煩直接登記好了
結果一直拖到現在還在裝死.....
他爸媽明示暗示外加朋友敲邊鼓都已經敲到快破了
她依然老神在在說她不急旁人急個屁
我假裝生氣跟她吵 她瞪我一眼我立刻就不敢說話(向來都是她比較強勢)
我哀兵政策說我老了真的很想早點有小孩 她又說不需要結婚也可以生
我唯一不敢的是讓我爸媽逼她 深怕她大小姐一個不爽 結婚更遙遙無期
誠心請教各位大大
問題到底出在哪裡
我真的已經江郎才盡無計可施了
謝謝各位的指點
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