[討論] 女性友人總是找男友幫忙消失
事情是這樣的,我男友有一個單身的女
生朋友,我也認識他,但不太熟,因為
她和我男友家算是蠻近的(我與男友同
住),不知道是不是因為這樣,常常有
事情都會找我男友幫忙,剛開始是搬過
來時找我男友幫他搬家,搬完已經大概
晚上12點了,女生的機車破胎,於是
我男友跟他換車,因為女生工作時間太
常沒時間自己去修,也不敢騎破風的
車,隔天補完胎再騎去她家跟他換回
來,換車時,女生朋友以為只有他一個
人,於是找他買東西上去他家一起吃,
但我男友沒這麼做,可能知道我會不開
心,就買東西給他吃然後在樓下聊聊天
之後結束了,後來過沒多久,有次那女
生去公司途中,車子又爆胎了,又打給
我男友,但我男友在上班,跟他說下班
時(晚上12點)再過去她公司跟他換
車去修,但原本下班時我跟男友要去吃
宵夜,我怕修完車太晚,於是11點先
騎我的車去跟那女生換車然後一起騎去
修,我男友是有跟我說破胎的車很難
騎,但我覺得慢慢騎應該還好,他可以
騎我怎麼不能,只是覺得很納悶為什麼
那女生就是沒辦法自己騎,所以這件事
就這麼處理了,但內心已有點不開心,
為何有事都要找我男友幫忙,難道自己
沒辦法解決或是沒其他朋友能幫忙嗎,
我就跟我男友說難道你就這麼閒嗎整天
幫人家做這些事情,男友說他有跟女生
說可以搭計程車,但女生說不要,計程
車很貴,可我跟那女生修車時,他說她
有跟我男友說他自己搭計程車就好,我
男友說沒關係我下班再去跟你換,但我
也沒辦法確認什麼所以這件事就這樣結
束了。今天下午時,那女生問我男友禮
拜一早上會不會在家,說要去他家,因
為她要買瑪丹娜的票,但她沒電腦,我
男友知道我會不開心,跟他說可以去網
咖搶也比較快,但那女生說她沒去過網
咖要我男友陪他去,後來也不知道我男
友會怎麼做。我想請問各一般女生這樣找男生朋友幫忙這些事很正常嗎?男生這樣幫忙女性朋友也是很理所當然的行為嗎?是否是我自己太小心眼為了這種事不開心?
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