[求助] 女友說我的媽媽太依賴我!?
我有一個女友交往一年多了
之前在規劃暑假的時候
要騎機車跟他的朋友去南投三天兩夜出遊
但很讓我掙扎的是
我媽媽是癌症患者,右手手臂淋巴水腫
每天早上還要起來做生意搬重物
媽媽要我若是暑假期間有空的時候
如果有時間能夠幫忙他的話,就盡量幫忙他
我不太會說謊,我不想要欺騙女友和媽媽
於是我跟女友坦白說出我現在的狀況以及我的想法
我跟女友說,媽媽最近一直念他的手會腫脹
媽媽的復健師說若是一直腫脹下去的話
就連做復健也沒有用了
以後就是會大小手
所以,距離出發還有一個月的時間
我提早跟你說我不能去
我女友是這樣回覆我的
你可以讓他面對有一天你可能也是要飛的嗎?
你可以讓他明白不是萬事順從等於孝順嗎?
你可以明白有的時候不是不反駁就是孝順嗎?
有時候讓媽媽太過依賴不是一件好事
也許你認為三天可以挽救你媽的手
但你從來沒有自由飛過
一輩子被綁著,我不想要大家出去甜甜蜜蜜
只有我自己落單
我該放生了嗎?
是要等我媽發生遺憾了,才來後悔嗎?
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