[求助] 跟男友冷戰兩天…
文長…手機排版,若很亂及文筆差,請見諒。
前天在跟男友視訊時,
他正好在玩電腦逛網頁之類的,
我就開始分享今天工作上所發生的事,想要他給我一些回饋或反應,
一開始他沒很認真聽,
我就有點不開心說:「我很認真在分享我的生活,你卻都一直玩你的電腦,沒認真聽我講話。」
他就辯駁說是故事太長聽不懂,我就想好吧,有可能也是我大舌頭讓他聽不清楚,所以就放慢剪短內講第二次,
結果,乾!他還是很敷衍沒啥反應,我又生氣的問他我剛到底說什麼,他的回覆就很隨便說:「阿…就那個場勘嘛,後來又去玉井吃冰嘛~就這樣。」我就很無言,後來想說好吧,你要玩電腦就讓你玩,就直接關電腦不理他了~改傳line瞧他,他也只是丟圖敷衍我。
後來到了兩人要睡覺時,我就改用facetime,又想要分享事情,這次的故事就很短不到三分鐘,結果我講完時,他完全沒反應!直接就講他自己在看到手機的事,我就爆氣了,質疑他有沒有心聽我講話,我們每天只有晚上10點時才能視訊講話,但你都不在意我的生活blabla,他一發現我在發脾氣,就馬上說:「好了,好了,我要睡了,拜拜~」
我就整個怒到掛掉FaceTime,到隔天兩個人都沒傳賴,我就也發現他生氣了,因為通常我們都幾乎整天靠賴聯繫感情,所以就更不爽覺得你不反省還生氣!但到晚上我就忍不住軟化先去傳圖片給他,結果…乾!他竟然已讀不回!而且我就連發已讀不回的貼圖(男友為學生,幾乎整天都很閒,也不會很忙錄,通常回覆訊息都很快,而我們都會連發貼圖攻擊對方,所以他不會氣這種行為)還是不回!平常他都會回的人!因此本來即將消失的怒火又再度燃起,就也就不管決定繼續冷戰!
相隔三、四小時,他才回應:「…」及一張貼圖,那時我已經怒火中燒,決定換我已讀不回,表示我無聲的抗議!
於是我們就冷戰到今天我po這時後…
其實想想自己也很白目,本身在用電腦時,有時真的無法放下滑鼠聽他講話…但現在已演變到,兩個人都在測試對方的極限,看誰最先低頭,但我朋友說如果想讓他改變傾聽的態度,就要堅持下去。可是我每天都在等他賴我或視訊,都無法安心入眠…當自己想投降時,又很不服氣,想繼續撐下去…但又好想跟他聊天,也怕戰越久越傷感情,但又不想他以後吃定讓我生氣無所謂,反正我都會先低頭之類的事~
覺得好阿雜!!好想知道他腦袋想啥!
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