[心情] 很不公平…
我跟女方今年剛滿五年,我們從國三開始,現在大一了
高中跟大學都是不同校,但我們家住得近,假日常常都會出去,大學則是跨縣市了,沒辦
法常常見面,所以入學之前他就說要考轉學考,我也鼓勵她、等她過來
感情算很穩定,上學期我很擔心,畢竟覺得剛開始的不確定因素很多,但也度過一個學期
,寒假我們又重聚了
下學期,她說我比起上學期還要不關心她,我好像的確比較放心了,所以減少了問她在幹
嘛、去哪裡
上禮拜四,我知道他都會跟男生比較好,可是看到她出去拍照每次都有男生覺得很不舒服
(通常也只有她加一兩個女生),我就叫他可不可以不要每次出去都有男生,她說她再試
上禮拜六,她說她有跟跟他比較好的男生說過了,不會再常常出去了
晚上,他又說,其實她有一個男生喜歡她,她也對他有點喜歡,她覺得要對我誠實,所以
才跟我講
我叫她不要再跟他來往,她說她會有想要被他照顧、關心的感覺,可是她又覺得他這樣不
對
我給他時間讓她想她對我的感覺是什麼,也是給他時間離開那個男生,原本說一個禮拜後
再密她,但隔天我就受不了了,事情沒講清楚我怎麼能這樣等
她說男生對他很好等等,可是他們什麼都沒有做,而且她也講清楚不能這樣了,但是直到
現在她還是每天和他聊天,我說妳想要給他機會?還是也給妳機會?她說有一點
一個月前本來我們打算假日去臺南玩,但是我沒有多的錢了,我也不敢跟她說不去了,才
說沒有空去
她說本來以為去臺南見面後她就不會對那個男生有感覺了,但我卻說不去,她以為我都不
關心她、不在意她了,但我沒有…
我們打算母親節回家後再說,我問她她的心是否不在我身上了,她說對…
我也不知道該怎麼辦,只想挽回她,我們曾經都覺得對方是自己的一輩子了,但她現在卻
…我不想放手…
我覺得很不公平,我對她從來沒變,大學時甚至不太跟女生往來,她卻自己以為我不愛她
,就自己找別人,我就要這樣被拋棄?
她說她清明節前才喜歡上他,五年的感情比不上一個多月的際遇?
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