[求助] 爸爸反對我結婚...
看板Boy-Girl作者ANITA9237 (ANITA9237)時間9年前 (2015/03/25 23:11)推噓-6(48推 54噓 143→)留言245則, 103人參與討論串1/5 (看更多)
因為有了小孩..
告知雙方父母後決定約時間見面...
爸爸開出要娶他女兒要有一棟房子(買在哪都可以)還要身邊有個三五百萬當後盾...
爸爸在第一次見面就直話直說開條件...
對方爸爸在大陸工作..一個月十幾萬收入..
媽媽是學校會計主任退休..一個月退俸祿也有七八萬...
男朋友是獨子..但現在的媽媽是繼母..繼母有生個女兒...
原本對方有意要買房..但爸爸第一次見面就談這..對方覺得很荒唐...原本想買都被氣到不想出錢了...
男朋友正要找新工作...
我爸覺得對方家沒錢男朋友又沒穩定的工作...
從上個禮拜談到現在..天天都想帶我去婦產科...他覺得他不堅持要我拿掉以後是害到我..已經11週了..是個3.5公分有頭有手有心跳的小生命了...我真的捨不得...
第一次見面後男方家族整個大生氣..認為我爸看他們家沒有..
後來對方退步..只要我爸答應..對方就會馬上在桃園買房(我是桃園人)對方家裡出五六成..我們自己貸剩下的...
但電話中我爸還是堅持要我拿掉...說以後他可以給我的比男方家可以給的多出更多...但我要的不是我爸的財產...我想要保住我的孩子啊...以後好壞吃苦我自己願意承擔...
我爸還堅持如果我要堅持走自己的路要斷絕父女關係...
我媽在我家都聽我爸的...
姐姐幫忙講話也講不動...
我好無助...
明天會再跟男友一起回家求我爸...
求他點頭答應這門婚事...
我爸不答應我就要被男友帶到台中家跟他媽一起住...
可是我真的不想跟他媽一起住....
我真的好無助...
小孩拿掉我覺得我以後一定會有憂鬱症...
我真的不知道該怎麼辦了....
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