[討論] 男朋友講話方式是有禮貌的白目
看板Boy-Girl作者slowersongs (小麥老麥)時間9年前 (2015/02/12 11:30)推噓29(130推 101噓 123→)留言354則, 254人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
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我男朋友交往快兩年了,想來聽聽大家的想法
我男朋友不知道是有溝通障礙還是怎樣?講話方式有時會讓人覺得非常白目,可是又不是
沒禮貌,而且三不五時就會發作
有一次我們出去玩,走了一段路,後來回來等車時,他就說他腳很酸,我也覺得是走有點
久,不過我是還好
所以後來上車時,發現有一個位子,他叫我去做,我看他腿酸,就叫他自己坐,我站著就
好
後來,有一個老太太上車,站在我們旁邊,我就叫他起來讓座,他看了看,就跟老太太說
〝阿姨,不好意思,因為我今天去爬山,腿有點酸,所以這次沒有辦法讓坐給妳,你要等
嗎?我們坐到台北車站就會下車了!〞
阿婆就趕快說沒要緊,叫我男友坐就好,
我整個超無言,只好一直說不好意思不好意思,
我後來問他,叫他不讓坐就不要講話就好了,幹嘛說那些
他就覺得他腿很酸,跟阿婆表達讓阿婆了解,不是故意不讓坐,而且他覺得他有跟阿婆說
我們會到哪一站?如果阿婆不想等,她還可以去找其他位子,這樣子比較好
請問大家當對方這樣講話,要怎樣對應,他講的話是沒有不對,但是就是感覺很白目,謝
謝
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這邊代替女生做出補充,
女生叫男生讓座,只是用示意,並沒有當著阿婆面叫男生起來讓座
另外女生是覺得阿婆並沒有要求讓座,男生自己就講出來,這樣感覺有點怪怪的,以上,
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※ 編輯: slowersongs (223.137.175.169), 02/12/2015 11:55:39
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