[求助] 跟女友溝通困難
在一起才一個月多
但是講話溝通非常有代溝
總是為了莫名其妙的是情變成爭執
明明覺得什麼事情都沒有
或是明明是很小的事情 卻總變成大事
剛剛她貼了一篇旅館杯子很髒的文章給我
於是又開始了莫名起爭執的對話
M是我 f是女友
8:56 M 我幾乎不會在旅館泡東西阿
18:56 f 你會用杯子
18:56 M 哪有
18:57 f 有喔
18:58 f 你會拿杯子刷牙或裝水
19:04 M 我都喝裡面的礦泉水 我刷牙從不用杯子= =
19:04 f 我怎麼每次都看你杯子是濕的
19:04 f = =
19:05 f 你不是牙刷己乎放杯裡
19:06 M 我都放旁邊洗手台上
19:06 f 算了 不重要 沒有就好
19:07 M 嗯 應該是你洗臉或什麼到處噴吧= =
19:07 f 哪有啦
19:07 M 不然我去洗手台就洗手 刷牙而已
19:08 f 洗手還不是會噴
19:08 f 甩水
19:12 M 不會到讓遠處的杯子裡都失掉好嗎= =
19:13 f 哪裡遠
19:13 f 明明就在旁邊
19:16 M 我不太會甩水阿 我都洗好往後走才甩
19:17 f 這不重要 不必那麼執著
19:18 f 只是以為你會用 要你別再用 就這樣而已
19:20 M 哪裡執著 是你說濕了 我說覺得不是我而已 可以去想其他原因為什麼可
能濕了阿
19:20 f 沒有就沒有啊
19:20 f 重點只是不要用就這樣
之後的重點就是
她覺得我太執著的在針對她的每一句話
覺得我沒必要每次講話都這樣
然後我覺得...
其實我覺得一直到她說我很執著那句之前
我都覺得只是在輕鬆的聊天而已不是嗎?
我完全不知道我剛剛哪邊有執著了...
反而我覺得執著的人好像不是我 冏
我說的話她聽不進去
她說的我又無法理解
只好想說聽聽不同的意見和聲音
或許會點出真正的問題 也比較聽得進去
第一次發文
請各位板友不吝指點
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