[求助] 男友不結婚卻想要小孩
看板Boy-Girl作者saracutegirl (Miss ExcuseMe)時間9年前 (2015/02/01 11:37)推噓21(59推 38噓 58→)留言155則, 116人參與討論串1/1
版上的各位大大安安
覺得很困擾,想要聽聽大家的意見...
最近男友非常堅持覺得可以生小孩了..
但完全不知道他哪來的標準,
我沒有什麼存款,他也總是入不敷出..
雖然他說他媽媽一定會幫忙,
可是...那是我們的小孩耶..
怎麼可能都靠長輩幫忙呢?
自己至少也應該有些把握吧?
而且,我希望能先結婚再考慮生不生的事,
即使先公證也沒關係,
畢竟我們都是成熟的成年人,又不是沒計劃亂來,
為什麼不能先給我一個名分?
可是講到結婚,他就好像很閃躲,
一直說沒錢沒錢(那難道養小孩不用錢嗎)
最近只要我們討論到這件事,意見不同,
他就放棄溝通,感覺一點也不想站在我的立場為我想..
對一個女生來說,
未婚懷孕真的很難堪..也很沒保障...
我到底應該怎麼跟他溝通,他才願意試著站在我的立場為我想呢?
或者,有可能他有其他想法,是我現在沒有想到的呢?
謝謝...請教各位大大了><
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