[問題] 到底誰該出錢??
代PO
我朋友A是個媽媽
她女兒現在交了一個男朋友 (都成年了 男朋友也)
偶爾會一起出去 家庭活動之類的
事情是今天又出門玩了
一群人去 大多是女方這邊的朋友 + 朋友A的妹妹 + 然後女兒和男友有一起來
之後去了一家餐館 (黑白切那種)
大家就點了主菜 和 小菜
朋友A的妹妹是個比較會精算的人
因此就把小菜除以人數 然後跟每個人收主食 + 小菜錢
朋友A就付了他自己的那份
結果活動結束以後
女兒跟妹妹訴苦
說男朋友不太開心跟她抱怨
因為男友覺得這種應該是媽媽出錢才對呀
妹妹轉達給朋友
朋友覺得 我又沒有都不付 只是那攤當下沒想這麼多而已 又這麼多人
覺得 這活動其他的她也有出阿
這麼計較幹嘛
由於這件事已經不是第一次了
(就是關於跟長輩出去要出錢這件事 男友在這方面表達他的不滿)
因此友人也很苦惱
這種事到底該怎麼解決比較好
是要攤開來說還是怎樣
有幾個想法:
1.以後都我出 大不了減少一起出去
2.以後一人出一次
3.以後女兒的都我出 男友的自己出
不知道鄉民們還有甚麼看法?
若要溝通這些事情要注意那些事情??
友人很苦惱@@
怎麼好像婆媳問題性別轉換版阿RRRRRRRRRRR
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