[求助] 女朋友覺得自己對我很凶
小弟跟女朋友在一起快兩個月了
最近有點小問題出現
因為真的很喜歡他 很想和他一起走很久 所以想來求助一下各位大大..
跟女友很常講電話 頻率很高 每天都會講至少一個小時以上
但他常常很容易不耐煩 怎麼個不耐煩我也不太會舉例
大概就是 >> 好啦是要講幾次啦 << 之類的 但其實我一直覺得沒什麼
因為我是一個很難對女朋友生氣 也很難跟女朋友吵架的人
所以當他不耐煩的時候我也只會說 好啦幹嘛這麼凶啦 不要不耐煩啦 這種話
而他也常常說 為什麼你脾氣這麼好啊
然後現在剛講完電話 講完我們用line說了這些
她:越來越愛兇你跟找你吵架
我:蛤 我沒關係啊
她:其實不是很喜歡你說沒關係
我:不然我該說什麼 我真的沒辦法跟你吵架
她:因為這樣更顯得是我無理取鬧 很不想對你這樣
可是克制不了自己的脾氣 不想要你無限包容我
會寵壞我更放任我 我不喜歡別人限制我的舉動所以我也不會阻止你
可是我知道分寸畢竟我是難搞的人
你有覺得當朋友的我比現在好嗎
我就大概回她說 你想太多了 而且她的最後一句讓我很害怕
她:我只是想告訴你 我不要你跟我在一起是委屈的
是不開心的 苦都要自己吞的
然後因為其實我覺得沒有什麼啊 而且我覺得跟她在一起 我是快樂的 沒有什麼苦
她:不要因為一時快樂就覺得什麼苦都吞都覺得沒關係
我就很努力跟她解釋真的沒有苦 她真的想太多
之後她就去睡覺了 這大概只是20分前的事吧
其實她是個不太會跟我講這些話的人 所以她今天突然這樣跟我說
老實講有點嚇到 我大概懂她的意思 就是不想要我太寵她太包容她
但是 ... 我該怎麼做? 我不知道該怎麼樣解決現在這個問題..
也不知道該怎麼做對於我們會比較好
所以想上來請教一下各位 如果是你們會怎麼做
謝謝你們了!!!
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