[心情] 勇敢說出感受卻被這樣對待...我震驚了!!
看板Boy-Girl作者SalamAlaykum (wa 'Alaykum As-Salām)時間9年前 (2014/08/21 00:12)推噓26(30推 4噓 79→)留言113則, 53人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
事情是這樣的
上個週末,和我關係還不錯的一個學姊就要去新加坡工作了
其實我這一年來,都有對她釋出有好感的訊息,與她相處時感覺不錯
但感覺得出來她對我只是對待朋友一般,依經驗出國後很快就會斷了聯絡
為了不留下遺憾,我鼓起勇氣寄了一封信,向她訴說我對她的感覺
大意是覺得她是個很不錯的女生,和她相處時很愉快,也很喜歡她
然後祝福她以後在國外一切順利等等
單純只是表明自己對她的欣賞,也沒有要求對方和我在一起還是怎樣
寄出之後沒隔幾天,我就發現FB被她給封鎖了
wall點下去空白一片,頓時有種絶望的感覺
雖然說每個人遇到這種狀況的處理方式都不同
但還是想知道,單單是被一個沒那麼喜歡的對象告知說對自己有好感
也算是一種騷擾嗎?想請教板友們的意見,謝謝了!!
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我有認知到自己是沒機會,其實寄這封信也有好好向她道別的意味在
只是想不到結局竟然是這個樣子..
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可能她對這種事的想法也不是我所能猜透的吧
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最直接的描述大概就是稱讚她笑容很甜,如果她覺得不OK那我也認了..
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所以對女生來說,就算僅是傳達自己的心情,也還會是件令人困擾的事囉?
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※ 編輯: SalamAlaykum (219.107.53.17), 08/21/2014 01:17:00
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