Re: [求助] 女友反對我去外交替代役
※ 引述《ilovenctu (ilovenctu)》之銘言:
: 最近申請上了外交替代役,可以至中美洲服役9個月
: 女友聽到這個消息相當反對我去。全部大概可以比在台灣多領10萬
: 我提議將這10萬當作兩次她可以來找我的交通費
: 這樣最長3個月沒有見面,不過女友還是相當反對。
: 我之前有去歐洲交換學生,我們曾經4個半月沒有見面
: 當時她說真是好不容易結束了,沒想到又有新的事情發生
: 我則是一面哄她,一面不知道該怎麼辦。
: 去外交替代役是一個爽了自己苦了女友、可以成就自己的選擇
: (不用當大頭兵, 但女友獨自在臺, 而那裡有我想要的人生經驗、語言能力)
: 不去的話,則是苦了自己爽了女友,並沒有成就誰。
: (當一般兵, 兩個人還是可以常見面)
: 常常覺得女友受苦到不如我受苦,一定要有一個人苦
: 但是這一交換,我原本可以到國外的機會就沒了
: 但是,之前已經讓她獨自在臺一段時間,心裡覺得虧欠她
: 真是讓我天人交戰啊...
雖然本人沒有去當外交替代役的資格
但是身為一個被同學質疑說:為什麼你認識這麼多我的(外交替代役)同梯阿!?
還有幫忙聯繫前後任前往同地的外交替代役的我而言
看著那些人去了一些我這輩子可能都沒機會去
看他們去了加勒比海上的小島聖文森、聖克里斯多福
去了有馬雅文明的中美洲國家,貝里斯、薩爾瓦多、尼加拉瓜、宏都拉斯、巴拉圭
一些大島,海地和多明尼加
可能快要消失的南太平洋國家吐瓦魯、索羅門以及斐濟
非洲的神奇地帶史瓦濟蘭、聖多美
最衰小的那個是去了帛琉
真TMD羨慕!!!
都是要搭上兩三趟長程飛機,機票錢要萬把元的有趣地方
今天不是說你不去當外交替代役就多了九個月的時間可以怎樣又怎樣
同樣都是要花上十一個月的時間,你為什麼要窩在台灣滑手機?
就為了一個不知道能否跟你走一輩子的人,放棄一個可以讓你說嘴一輩子的經驗?
如果你們走了一輩子就算了,如果沒有呢?
你可以跟你未來的老婆小孩說,當年我在中美洲的baraba
還是可以說當年我的前女友baraba
ˋ(′_‵||)ˊ
強者我學長的悲傷前女友還是在當外交替代役的時候
去那邊的台灣青年團妹妹
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看到這裡突然覺得我家肥宅真偉大
因為工作的關係現在可能一個月只能跟他見上一兩次面
還是因為我想在現在這個冬天會下雪的地方工作
(他在我家附近工作)
之後我想去工作的地方可能更遙遠
或許會是終年夏天的地方
他必須承受長久的分離
我知道你願意跟我走
我也會努力讓自己的能力更好職位更高薪水更多
多到能養你和我媽
讓你只能負責在家打掃洗衣煮飯和做自己喜歡的事就好
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