[求助] 女友覺得我太冷血
(朋友怕帳號被女友朋友認出幫朋友代po)
上次女友跟我說他辦公室有位女同事檢查出得了子宮頸癌
之後火速離職 開始準備接受治療
女友跟我說這件事的時候還滿難過的 說女同事還非常年輕想不到就生這麼嚴重的病
我當下沒有想太多就回說
現在報導不是都說女生要定期做檢查也有子宮頸疫苗可以打嗎
如果都有好好檢查或打疫苗的話怎麼會拖這麼久才發現生病
女友就很驚訝的說 我怎麼那麼沒有同理心那麼冷血
如果是我媽或我姊生病 你也會這麼說嗎
我當下有點不知道要回什麼 因為我真的是這樣覺得
就像新聞一天到晚報說有女生在夜店喝掛被撿屍
我也會覺得那是女生自己不小心注意才會發生這種事
但以女友的個性 女友會覺得一定是失戀或心情不好
一時喝多了才會這樣之類的
只能說是思考的方式不一樣吧
女友要說我沒同理心冷血我也只能認了
但我也會覺得女友太感性不會用理性的方式去思考
雖然不會因此而覺得女友這樣有什麼不好的
畢竟這就是她吧 我也一直都喜歡這樣的她
但女友為了我這次說的話耿耿於懷好久
這幾天一直對我冷冷的 說她對我很失望之類
唉 當每次發生這種事的時候我都會覺得自己很像壞人
無法像女友那樣站在他人的角度去設想
也會懷疑自己是不是真的那麼冷血沒同理心
想問大家我這樣真的不好 應該要改嗎
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