[心情] 是公主病作祟還是?與男友金錢觀有點不同
我跟我男友在一起四年了!但有些觀念還是不太合
我男友在跟我交往一開始說了一句話,他媽媽跟他說不要當女人的提款機
這句話聽在我耳裡覺得很刺耳,事隔多年還是會想到
當下覺得媽媽擔心兒子很正常,但覺得他兒子轉述給我聽就很白目
我也馬上回他,要是我是為了錢,我就會選擇比你更好的
(因為都是學生,但我的生活環境比他好一點)
最近很擔憂,因為都交往四年即將邁入五年了,卻有時候在金錢觀會有點不同\
(可能我也有點公主病><)
我們這幾年的相處其實花費都還蠻公平的,不是說每一筆都算得清清楚楚
而是說我們知道要是這餐沒有付錢,下一餐就會幫對方付
因為彼此才剛出社會不想給對方負擔
昨天我跟爸爸在聊天
聊天我不喜歡跟我男友去古蹟(剛好看節目聊到那個古蹟)
因為當地人不用付錢,所以每次都我付自己的錢覺得很....(當然門票只有幾十元)
所以之後我就不會選擇古蹟之旅
我爸爸當下跟我說他怎麼這麼小氣
我心想糟了!不小心說錯話
我就跟他說我們那時都還是學生,也還沒工作所以付自己的很正常
雖然事後想想我真的很在意
我不懂的點有兩個
1.為什麼有時候他會出個一兩百塊貼補我車費,但卻20.30元付不出來
2.為什麼我會這麼在意這點小錢呢?
雖然我會跟自己說他沒有義務要幫我付任何一毛錢,但還是會小小的不舒服
我也不會跟他吵,因為他沒義務
希望板友可以提供我一些寶貴的意見,轉換心情,謝謝
說真的有時候會想很遠
會擔心以後要是結婚後發現錢都算得清清楚楚怎麼辦
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