[求助] 認識四天,說要結婚
在相X小站認識了40歲從事警察的A先生,我35歲
A先生人很真誠,還特地從南部坐車上來認識我
我們也聊得很來,只是A先生快速地決定要跟我結婚
希望在年底或明年結
他條件很好,月薪七萬多,無父母,自己有一棟透天厝,獨居,哥跟姐都結婚搬到外面,
家境單純
並說結婚後我可以不用去工作,還會帶我去國外玩
但,我覺得步驟跳了太快了,連當朋友都還沒開始,才認識四天就談結婚
這樣不會太奇怪嗎?而且完全沒感情基礎....
他是說他已經四十歲了,沒有時間慢慢找,只想快點安定下來,而且同事都結婚了,
我雖然很想快點結,但起碼要喜歡上對方吧!
但A先生很想快點交往結婚,我很怕耽誤到他,畢竟還沒交往也不知道合不合適
我該答應嗎?
但怕到時我發現不適合而分開,A先生會不會生氣呀?
我真的感受得到他真的很強烈的想要結婚,才第四天就牽我的手並叫我跟他擁抱
有人有類似經驗的嗎?我感到這一切太急促,好像天上突然掉下一個大餅一樣不可思議
雖然他沒說非我不可,但我也知道他只想找一個老婆,誰都可以
如果現在不答應,他就要再重新去找別人了
我現在很苦惱,一直希望可以結婚,但當機會來時,我卻不知道該不該把握?
A先生希望我可以快點回覆他,我不知道該怎麼辦?
請熱心人士幫我分析一下
謝謝
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