[求助] 因為金錢衍生的問題
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前提:
男25y:有部分經濟能力
女21y:無經濟能力
兩個人常常因為價值觀而吵架,
由於女方跟朋友出去的時候都可以花300~400不等作為吃飯玩樂之開銷,
讓男方覺得為何每次女方跟男方出去都要花男方的錢。
女方認為男方要多體諒女方不會賺錢,
認為如果要AA制那不如少見面甚至不要出去約會吃飯算了。
男方則認為女方有錢跟朋友出去玩,幹嘛跟他出去就要一直花男方的錢。
(而且還不是偶爾,已經到經常女方老是喊窮要跟男方借錢出去玩的程度了)
然後他們因為這件事情,常常分分合合鬧到大家都知道,
但男方很愛女方,所以不管女方怎麼鬧怎麼任性男方都接受。
但唯獨這次男方已經忍很久了,
所以就跟女方提出來有關於金錢這部分的問題。
然後女方就以這為引燃點一次爆發,說要跟男方分手,認為對方適合更成熟的女人。
至於中間點怎麼跟男方談的就不追究,總之又是和好了。
但男方認為這不是解決辦法,所以借帳號上來發問:
請問該如何讓女方做好金錢管理,
並且能不要老是把分手當成威脅或一種談判手段呢?
代原苦主先感謝各位幫忙解答了~
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我也覺得他女友咬定他不會跟她分手,就算分手也會巴著女方挽留要她回來。
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補充一下:
男方打死不接受分手這個選項,要他分手我看我又要陪他買醉一整夜了Orz...
然後隔天就會開始挽留對方 .. 不誇張 ..
※ 編輯: edward4904 來自: 118.171.95.151 (03/11 02:57)
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