Re: [求助] 不想結婚了.....是我太計較嗎?
稍微離題問一下..
我有點好奇 提親的目的是什麼?
為什麼是男方到女方家提親?
為什麼不是女方到男方家提親?
或是兩家人約出去吃飯討論 雙方平起平坐 這樣可以嗎?
我的問題暫時跳脫原po的情況 所以先不討論原po男友的個別情形
只單純討論 提親 這件事
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所以邏輯應該是這樣:
傳統上女生結婚就是嫁進別人家 ->
婚後就屬於男方家 ->
婚後會很吃虧很辛苦 ->
所以婚前需要禮遇女方 不能有"女方自己送上門"的感覺 ->
需要提親以示禮遇
是這樣嗎?
那這樣提親是不是反而隱含著接受上述婚後不利女生的傳統觀念?
※ 編輯: paopaotw 來自: 1.164.144.22 (02/25 09:53)
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