[求助] 和女朋友還是相愛卻沒有話題
看板Boy-Girl作者tsrn46336686 (hahapointishere)時間10年前 (2013/12/27 01:46)推噓47(47推 0噓 79→)留言126則, 44人參與討論串1/1
我和女朋友因為大學分隔兩地所以幾乎都是講電話跟傳line。
最近過了熱戀期,講電話情意綿綿的話越來越少,慢慢都是聽著她豐富的大學生活我就聽著並回應,而我因為被課業壓的死死所以生活上也沒什麼好講的,有趣的事也都是些鄉民才懂的事,所以我也無法在那燒毀來斷他魂節去的,她ㄧ定會很錯鄂。
重點來了,最近我們傳line還好但ㄧ講電話就吵架或鬧的不開心,因為講電話都沒有話題,幾乎就是ㄧ個無聲模式到底偶爾ㄧ兩句話然後ㄧ個吵架的收尾,今天則是大吵ㄧ番然後我們互相都把心裡的想法說出來。
我們互相說完後才發現,其實我們真的很想跟對方在電話中有說有笑,我卻又太過刻意的想話題卻不知道要講什麼,她講著她的大學生活但她覺得跟我講這些卻老是得到制式話的回答她覺得很不開心。
我的問題在於我真的會不知覺很刻意的去想怎麼回答,最後卻只覺得要快點回結果只回笑笑或是好充實喔哈哈這樣的回答,讓她完全沒辦法接下去,我真的很想回答我也聽的很專心但我就是不知道要回什麼...
我女朋友知道我很努力想接話題,可是我這樣普通的回答就是讓她覺得很無聊,她說她想而且她也覺得應該告訴我她的生活趣事,但我的態度卻讓她有種只是每天報備的感覺,我該怎麼辦,我們真的很想開心的聊天,我該聊什麼回什麼。
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