[求助] 爲什麼不願意參加另一半的聚會?
和男友交往一年半,算是穩定。
男友是國中同學,工作後才在一起。
剛開始交往,男友完全不願意參加我的家人與朋友聚會。
爭論後,偶爾的家族聚會可以,和大姐姐夫的聚會可以(我和嫁出去的大姐很親,每月至少見兩次)。
但我的姐妹淘聚會(僅三人),甚至國中同學會(是的,這也是他同學),很明顯地感受到他的不願意。
他說可以接送我到聚會場地,可是他不要進去。
換個角度看,他是願意邀我參加他的家族與朋友聚會。
因此,我的問題是:
一、爲什麼他寧可接送我,也不願意參加呢?(我沒主動要求他接送)
二、他的紅粉知己頗多,也是會單獨和他的好朋友聚餐。他之所以不參加我的朋友聚會,是爲了日後可以說「你看,我都給你自由,但你爲什麼要干涉我交友與約會的情況呢?」,這樣的嗎?還是真的單純不想?
很想聽聽大家的經驗談,感謝。
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