Re: [求助] 如何委婉暗示追求者(女)減肥
無關原文 只是在這系列文中有一些疑惑及心得想與大家討論
還望大家不吝指教
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在原推文及討論串中
看到不少諸如"有人喜歡你還嫌"、"憑什麼要求別人"、"別糟蹋人家好女孩"等說法
也出現類似"這個女生既然個性很好 何必因為外在問題錯失機會"的言論
當然每個人觀點不同,我無意批評哪一種看法
只是反觀男女顛倒,好像多數人就會覺得被追求者(女生)有種種條件考量是應該的?
小妹潛水許久,
似乎也還未曾看過有女生發文考慮追求者條件時底下喊出"有人追還嫌"云云
我自己的想法是,由於目前社會上大多數人的感情觀仍希望以男方主動為主
因此當性別逆轉成為較少數的情形時
當事人可能就被他人或自我說服 ("有人要就不錯了、別太挑"
"追女生勞民傷財,送上門來不要白不要")
因此認為"有人要就好" 不該再多要求其他條件
(這可能又牽涉到一些偏激的"沒女友=魯蛇"價值觀?)
有違此例者,可能便會招來膚淺、王子病的罵名
今天思緒很沒條理,所以上述一定有不少漏洞
希望能有哪位強者找出更好的解答對我提點一二
最後強調,我不想戰男女,只是看了這系列有感而發因此厚顏向大家討教
與原文關係也不大,重點在討論文中所述現象
若有任何不妥之處還請不吝告知 謝謝
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