[求助] 男友不愛打扮
我和男友再一起快三年了,
我們也都很認定對方,希望以後也可以一直一起生活下去
剛開始認識他時,
為了追我當然每天都會打扮得很整齊很乾淨
其實我對他有沒有打扮不會有太大的意見,
兩年前住在一起後,他開始越來越不愛打扮自己
原本天天會戴隱形眼鏡,住在一起後變得幾乎不會帶,
鬍子也可以將近一個月不刮,因為他說他喜歡走頹廢風
頭髮應該也2、3個月才剪一次
每次我都希望她可以剪短一點,因為知道他很不愛剪頭髮
但每次剪也都只剪一兩公分....
最近他和我一起找了一份打工(我們是大四學生)
員工幾乎都以女生為主,
他開始變得很勤於打扮自己
每天上班一定戴隱形眼鏡,鬍子兩三天一定刮一次
我問過他為什麼上班一定要戴隱形眼鏡
(我不是反對他戴隱形眼鏡,而是他和我出去時幾乎不戴隱形眼鏡
有時一起出去吃個大餐或特別日子也不會特別打扮總是夾腳拖)
但他只回答"我就是喜歡這樣去上班""為什麼不行"
甚至會因為這樣跟我大吵了幾次架,
我希望他平常跟我出去也要打扮,結果她回我
"那你在家也化妝嗎?"
"怎麼不是你跟我一起素顏出門,而是我要學你"
又或者
"我都沒強迫你一定要化妝出門,你為什麼要逼我戴隱形眼鏡刮鬍子"
也許大大們會覺得這樣的吵架理由很幼稚,
但我就是很在意他對我的態度是這樣子,
好像再一起久了好像我對他的看法都無所謂了,
反倒是上班才會讓他有動力整理自己
但是私下出門依然是和上班差很多......
剛剛又和他因為這件事情吵了一大架,
他還是維持他的論點,
他覺得我在約束他的行為、打扮
我這樣做真的是太強人所難了嗎> <?
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