[心情] 女友很難搞已刪文
目前跟女友住一起已經一年了
最受不了的是 不管今天是誰做錯事 結果都是一樣
1.我惹她不開心 -> 她沉默我道歉 -> 她哭 -> 我繼續道歉然後安慰她
2.她惹我不開心 -> 她道歉完沉默 -> 接著哭 -> 我接受道歉但還是要安慰她
更誇張的是
3.她說了或做了一些事 讓我不喜歡 我認真地跟他說我的感受 但我其實沒有不爽
但是她就會覺得我已經生氣了 然後就是 沉默 -> 道歉 -> 哭 -> 我又要安慰她
沉默的階段開始她就不會聽我講話了
跟她說我真的沒事也沒有不開心 都不會理我
哭的時候就是鬼打牆的一直說對不起 對不起..
像是第三個情境 有時候講完 我後面還有說有笑的 她就開始不說話了
然後一哭就是半小時 安慰她又要半小時一小時不等
常常就會覺得 到底做錯事的是誰 為什麼總是我在安慰妳...
有時甚至被她鬼打牆的連發對不起搞得從"本來沒事"變成"真的不爽"
只是最後就變成進入第二層而已...還是我要安慰她來收拾殘局
所以還是要忍一下 待在第一層
根據我的觀察 她就只是純粹不想讓我不開心 然後給自己太多壓力了
所以平常嘻嘻哈哈的 一遇到我稍微正經跟她講一些道理的時候 就崩潰了
久了以後 反而變成我有話都不敢跟她說
就算要說還要挑時間 如果是平日晚上 我會選擇先吞下來 假日再說
好無奈
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沒想過要跟她分手耶
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有溝通過 只是她說沒辦法控制那種情緒 然後又覺得自己很糟糕 然後又要來了.. loop
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如果不理她放她一個人哭 她還會自己跑過來坐在妳旁邊哭...
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