[求助] 如何讓男友閉嘴?
是的,如題,這事著實困擾我很久了,
我和男友平時相處都很好,很甜蜜很愛對方,不過有件事是我最無法接受的
每次我們兩個吵架,我的習慣是我非常需要安靜冷靜沈澱,所以把我擺在一旁我自己想通就好了,不過呢,我親愛的男友卻不是如此,他總會在一旁碎唸,是真的一直唸,這樣會讓我很煩!
舉例來說,前陣子我看到他手機和前女友聊天的記錄,其實內容真的沒有什麼,我也不過就小小不爽就
,然後安靜的繼續看電視,但他就會一直唸:我跟他沒什麼,因為怎樣怎樣怎樣怎樣…我就說,好了我不想聽,想安靜
我是打從心裡真的不想聽啊,因為我知道他們沒怎樣,可是我總需要一點時間安靜去消化我心裡的不爽吧!
但他就會一直唸說我們真的沒怎樣,你不要生氣在那邊擺臭臉,狂唸!我就真的很受不了旁邊的人一直碎唸
這就算了,有時候他還會故意唱歌,是改歌詞那種,唱出他想告訴我的話,例如:我還能做什麼~你一直擺臭臉~每次都這樣~
真的聽了很OOXX
我試了很多方法,我知道我不能拿東西塞住他的嘴巴,所以我拿東西塞住我的耳朵,
我也試著在我們心情都很好的時候跟他說,吵架的時候我需要安靜需要空間,請他不要再碎唸,他說好,但,想也知道不會有用
你知道碎唸的功力有多強嗎?他能讓平靜的人心情變浮躁,變暴躁,然後會想做出任何事情,就只為了能讓他閉嘴,我就離家出走過幾次…
請問版上也有人遇到跟我一樣的狀況嗎?還是我修養太差?
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