[求助] 男友的奇怪行為,這樣有劈腿嗎?
交往一年多了,男友總說我們是以結婚為前提交往
交往過程還算順利,他帶我見過他家人好幾次,
但是男友總有一些行為讓我很不安
不知道他是不是把我當作騎驢找馬的備胎
甚至是已經劈腿?
有點奇怪的行為包括:
1.不給我FB,說他有帳號可是沒再用了
也不給我EMAIL(怕我藉此搜尋到他FB帳號?)
2.跟他在一起時,他的手機常常會有LINE的聲音(大概一整天會有4到5次)
但是他總是快速瞄了螢幕一下,從來不回對方(不敢在我面前回?還是我想太多?)
看手機的角度也都很注意,不讓我看到手機螢幕
3.他有兩個門號,還有市話,
晚上睡前跟他講手機時,偶爾會有另一支手機或是市話響,
他有時會先掛我電話叫我等一下再講,有時說沒關係跟我講完電話再回對方
問他是誰打電話來?
他總說是某位公司要好的女同事(已婚有小孩,我見過,跟他是有革命情感的好友)
可是是睡前欸.... 對方老公都不介意?還是打電話來的根本不是那位女同事?
4.每次與他見面都要事先約好,曾經好幾次臨時想去找他,
只是想見個面,沒有要花他太多時間,卻被他拒絕,
問他原因,他就開始無奈嘆氣,支支吾吾說不出個所以然,
然後慢慢擠出藉口(當天他自已本來已經規劃好要做什麼、工作完很累..之類)
我再多問幾句,就被他罵我很盧,都不體諒他,這樣他很痛苦
5 聲稱跟前女友分手以後就沒有連絡,也沒有打算跟對方當朋友,
但是卻無意間說溜嘴還有留對方的手機跟LINE,
我不明白這樣的動機是?(..當砲友嗎?還是純粹不想刪對方電話?我把他想太壞了嗎?)
6.他自稱性慾很強,跟以前女友的戰績輝煌
卻從不碰我,完全沒有親密行為
剛開始交往時我們會激烈的接吻擁抱,他也會要求我用口幫他(西斯版的部分就不多說了)
但後來他想要更進一步時,因為我堅持婚前不能有真正的性行為,
所以一直維持基礎的親密關係(接吻 擁抱跟咬咬)
這樣大概一兩個月後,他就完全不碰我了,
將近一年來完全沒有牽手甚至身體碰觸,
並肩走在一起時,也會保持禮貌的距離
向他要求、抱怨、撒嬌、哭泣都沒用,他堅持說他"尊重我"所以這麼做
一年來都這樣,我很擔心,他難道沒有其他宣洩管道?
這些行為讓我愈來愈不安,我很愛他,想跟他一直在一起,
卻不知道是不是被他欺騙..經常因為想起這些事就忍不住哭泣....覺得和他好像沒有未來
我該離開他嗎?
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