[求助] 交往久了感覺愈來愈淡的問題
看板Boy-Girl作者Jillstar (nothing I can do)時間10年前 (2013/09/08 02:24)推噓36(46推 10噓 73→)留言129則, 77人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
和男友交往三年多了
期間一直算穩定 經過一年的遠距/工作轉換等等 都一路撐過來了
但最近幾個月 和男友相處起來總覺得平淡到好空虛
週末一起出門經常想不到去處 永遠是老梗:吃飯/看電影
以前週間時間下班我們會相約吃飯 一周大概兩三天
最近我也都沒耐性等他下班 寧願直接回家吃
以前睡覺前總會講電話 現在也不會特別想打 覺得都講些沒意義的話而已
加上經常自己講完後男友都隔好幾秒沒任何回應 讓我覺得他根本沒在聽 更不想講了
男友是一個比較被動的人 其實他一直算對我不錯 也願意傾聽我對於生活工作的抱怨
但他就是動作太慢 做什麼事都很沒效率很被動 讓我累積很久的沒耐心一次爆發
最近的自己 對男友整個失去了耐心 覺得跟朋友姐妹出去都比跟他在一起開心充實
遇到這種情況真的不知該如何是好 也不曉得問題出在哪裡
不曉得大家有沒有遇過這種情況...希望能給點意見 謝謝
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