[求助] 到底是我錯還是我姐錯?
剛剛跟我姐大吵一架,講了很多重話,希望大家給個公道,如果多數人認為我錯,我明天會跟我姐道歉.
我姐今年39歲,從未結過婚,年輕的時候追求者重多,所以她一直都很挑. 最近有一位男生追求她,我跟家人都見過那男生,認為不錯,對方很喜歡我姐,也懂得愛屋及烏.
今天和我姐爭吵的點是,她認為對方外表,學歷,家庭都不如我姐,跟他交往,會在背後被別人笑. 但對方有房有車也在知名公司上班,可能房子車子工作並不是最頂尖的,但也有平均值. 反觀我姐的前男友們,可能外表比目前這位男生好一點,但不是工作很差就是薪水只有我姐的一半,還對我姐不好, 但這些我姐都可以不在乎,有外表跟毫無作用的學歷就可以?
我姐認為她對對方就是沒感覺,我不應該逼她跟對方聯絡,但以前也有很多條件還可以的人追她,她都把對方嫌的半死,但現在那些男生每個都擁有幸福的家庭,也過的很好,我跟我姐說,妳可不可以不要一再犯同樣的錯誤,把喜歡妳的人嫌得半死,等之後再看著別人在fb上跟老婆小孩幸福美滿的照片,感嘆其實這幸福本來可以屬於妳.
我姐認為沒感覺就不行,甚至說不敢想像有一天要跟沒感覺的人發生關係. 單身是很好,但我知道我姐內心是渴望結婚的. 終於有一個不錯的人出現,卻眼看她又要拒絕對方,我實在看不下去就跟她吵了一架. 我認為無聊的人反而會因為她年紀大嫁不出去笑她,不會因為她的對象其貌不揚或學歷背景不好而取笑她.
還有一點是男生是無毛症患者,我姐有點迷信,她幾年前生過一場大病,所以認為對方可能會剋死她...對方的外表一開始看到會有點驚,但看久了其實也還好.
我明白感情是個人的事,但看我姐一錯再錯,我實在很火大,到底該怎麼勸她?
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