[求助] 這樣是不是太勉強男生了
我和男朋友交往兩年,住在一起一年半,
男友比較封閉,常有很多事情要我自己去處理面對,
中間風風雨雨我也都承下來了,
今年暑假他研究所畢業,
兩家的父母覺得應該要讓我們兩個有個結果,
我也有這個意思,於是安排了一個雙方父母見面的飯局,
也提前跟他說,這局只是吃個飯,結婚一事並不急,
(補充:他反應並不高興而且有些反對)
但他在今天突然決定不要出席,
說他沒有準備好,
於是我問他說,這兩年中我替他做了這麼多付出與犧牲,
他難到還沒有打算給我一個承諾?
他跟我說沒有,
而他給我的理由是:
1. 我太胖不到他的標準(這兩年工作外加身體吃藥胖的)
2. 我的生活習慣還要再學習改進
3. 他還沒找到工作
當然爾,最後他沒有出席這場飯局,
而我覺得兩人的關係看不到未來,所以很困惑,
是我逼了他嗎? 還是我應該清醒了?
個人不願意隨便說分手。
不論是道德觀不允許我做像這樣不珍惜的舉動,
另外也覺得是我對我們關係還有改進的責任與空間。
想請問各位男生,我也想檢討是我要求的太多了嗎?
還是只是時間不到而已我還應該再等待?
謝謝。
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